Next week is my halfway mark on the 12 steps! I love whole foods and that’s mostly all I eat. My husband has a 64oz soda most days, eats fast food most days, feeds my kids pizza and chips all weekend, and brings home 4# bags of m&ms along with the big bag of spinach from Costco. Despite that, the overall change in diet in our home has been dramatic in the last six months. My husband bragged enough about what I was doing at work that the ladies he works with told him he should buy me a vitamix for Christmas and he did (well, a Blendtec).
In 12-steps, Robyn talks about how she was raised eating fruits and vegetables. So that prompts my question. What is your food heritage, did it play a major role in preparing you to accept 12-steps?
The way a child is trained to eat is very powerful. My mother-in-law always says, “I’m a lazy cook, I want minimal or no preparation involved in my meals (heat and eat) and I don’t want to try new stuff.” (She also wants it to be super cheap). My father-in-law wants a soda every day and anything that is mostly sugar. No surprise that their four sons all eat fast food daily, drink soda daily, and buy their candy by the pound. This tradition of no-preparation is so ingrained that they actually prefer commercially prepared bread, cakes, cookies, and pies over homemade simply because the thought of the effort involved in homemade disgusts them.
My heritage: as long as I can remember, my mother has always been saying “I found this NEW recipe/restaurant!” She wants to taste every new exciting thing on the planet. She is a FABULOUS cook, everything she tries is awesome and she never cooks the same thing twice. When we go home for the holidays we pick a country for every day and plan exciting menus. My Dad loves anything out of a garden. We’ve always been amazed about how he will choose fresh fruit and veggies over cookies and candy every time. Well, it should come as no surprise that me and three of my siblings hate fast food because the menu is so boring (hamburger or hamburger?) We also don’t like to go to most restaurants unless they serve something really unique that we can’t make at home. The other sibling doesn’t cook, but he loves expensive, exotic restaurants. There are no veggie haters among us. I was surprised to learn that people were scared off by the color of green smoothies. I just don’t get scared by anything new, the greener the better at our house.
Legacy to my kids: I wish I was as exciting as my mom, because by comparison, my legacy to my kids sounds lame, but this is it, “If it isn’t healthy, it can’t be good”. They might eat the junk food that still creeps into our house, but they always want to know which foods are bad. I can already see my mantra rubbing off on them. If I say something is bad, they ask if there is a way to make a healthy alternative, what unusual thought patterns for little kids, I love it. If they like two foods, they’ll always ask which is healthier before picking their favorite. In addition, I have their solemn promise to never, ever, ever drink a caffeinated soda and I remind them often *grin*.